For some of us, Love and Pain is an addictive chemical cocktail. Abusive relationships can become the norm if as children we are accustomed to fear and stress and the constant stimuli of our fight/flight/freeze responses. As we mature into adults we often look for love, approval and acceptance in all the wrong places, gravitating towards the partner who roughs us up, ignores us, treats us bad. The Good Guy or the Safe Chick is too 'boring' we tell ourselves, but what we are a
Is your boss, colleague, partner giving you a hard time? Your gripe may be valid, but what part do you play in the unfolding drama? Everything we put out in terms of our thoughts, beliefs, actions, eventually comes back to us. The Law of Cause and Effect. The Law of Karma. Often these laws are seen as divine retribution: 'What ye shall do unto others so shall (in time) be done unto ye.' These are our human interpretations of Universal Law; our basic human desire for justice
Have you ever wondered why you keep choosing the same partner, the same friends, only with different faces? Look for the recurring patterns in your life. They hold the key to your spiritual, mental and emotional growth. What unresolved Story from the past are you continually repeating until you learn the lesson?
Maybe as the youngest child you always felt overlooked; that you never received the attention you craved/deserved? If that's the Story buried deep in your psyche you
Without sight, hearing, smell, taste, touch, it would be hard to imagine an existence. Without our senses, how would we know when we need to eat or drink?; how would we know if we were wet by the rain, being burned by the sun, freezing in the snow... or being stung by a jellyfish? Without our senses, we wouldn’t even know we had a body. The only connection to an existence we would have left would be our consciousness! Sounds pretty much like the state and dimensions we occupi
Here's a testimonial from the Archives, a healing which took place over several months ago. Despite her dire condition back then, these days, Jane is travelling around the world and recently returned from a trip to South Africa! [The photo was taken several weeks after the healing]
"Two weeks ago I was suffering with complete exhaustion, severe pain in my bones and muscles... enough to stop me from walking. I also had hypersensitivity, sickness, hallucinations etc. I had s
So many recent testimonials in this area, I seem to be developing a specialism in back issues! Although back pain is an obvious physical condition, there are definite metaphysical interpretations. Every body part relates to a certain emotional block in our life, and the Stories we hold in this area mostly have to do with insecurities around freedom, support, love and finances. When these Stories are released, the body's natural self-healing processes are activated to magical
"I have been ill for over a week now with exhaustion and an awful stomach and no energy.
I called my wonderful friend Carmen to ask about something completely unrelated and I happened to mention how I was feeling. About half an hour later I got a call from Carmen saying sit down somewhere on your own and let's do a quick process. Wow! I feel so much better! Stomach calm, headache gone, and more energy! You're are beyond words"
A great testimonial. So, what was going on? In
I wish I'd got to hug her for real. To draw her fragility close. To whisper these truths in her ear: "Whatever you do, don't blame yourself. The need for drugs is a symptom of a Story(ies) in your early life, begging to be resolved. That story keeps erupting in the recesses of your subconscious, causing emotional pain. No one wants to feel pain. So we reach for the thing that puts a lid on the rising feeling: the drugs, shopping, drama, gambling, cigarette, drink, sex, porn -